Dedicate this post to someone especially me. XD
Just this morning, i have many people told me this.
" Cy"
"yes?" I replied.
" You look abnormal."
" Sorry, what abnormal?"
"Why are you smiling like no one's business?"
yes, i have been smiling for God-Knows-Why for the whole morning.
most people think monday is the worst day of all days.
And they say it is abnormal for me to smile like this.
Well, i just realized.. Someone long time ago, told me this.
" Why do you have to show your down face, dearie? Your smile is very beautiful. Show me." a woman once told me.
I was looking back my photos one day ago. * i sealed my photos away in a box.*
Then a picture of me and my mother, i saw.
Then a picture of me and my two friends, i saw.
Then i ask myself. Why live life so dead, if you got something free to make yourself and others happy?
From those picture, i saw the real me. The really smilling me.
Not those fake smiles i have.
after a while, thinking, thinking, and thinking.
if a person could let go everything, and smile as if they have no worries, then that is what peace feels like, cause that person have learnt how to let it all go, including hatred and unforgiven.
If we can learn this, how to let ourself go, then give yourself an applause.
Live life happily, why waste time thinking bad things?
As for me, i just want to live in Nat King Cole's song, because this song told my unconsciousness something. I just feel so happy because i have all these feelings inside me, including falling in love, or heartbroken. That's how beautiful life is.
Listen to peace yourself.
-chong cheng yee
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Long Distance Relationship
Have you ever heard people said that long distance relationship is the most difficult relationship to maintain among all the relationships? Besides, most of the people have the mindset that long distance relationship cannot last forever. However, in my point of view, long distance relationship is the most precious relationship. I strongly believe that a long distance relationship can last forever. Moreover, not every one can have the opportunity to have a long distance relationship.
Therefore, I would like to share some tips on how to maintain a long distance relationship. Effective communication plays a vital role in a long distance relationship. You must always keep in touch with your partner and make sure the conversation is meaningful.
In addition, you should always discuss your problems and thoughts with your partner. You should let him know what kind of problems you are facing recently. You can ask him to give you some opinion on your problems. By doing so, your partner will feel that he is very important in your life and you always need him to lend a helping hand towards you. Besides discussing your issue, you can also request him to share his problems with you. He will be very glad that you are caring of him.
Moreover, you can also have meals together twice a week. You can sit in front of the computer and turn on your web cam to have the meals together. You can share some of your views on the food. Although you are far apart from your partner, you can also watch him eating and sitting together to have meals.
Although you are far from your partner, you still can do some things together. You can listen to the same song and watching the same movie with your partner. You can imagine that your partner is beside with you.
Furthermore, you can give your partner a surprise. You can give a call in an unexpected time. He will feel very happy and special because you are willing to spend some time to talk to him. On the other hand, you can also visit him without telling him that you are coming. Lastly, you must not forget to say the three most important golden words to your partner.
Compiled by,
Lai Shu Tiing
Therefore, I would like to share some tips on how to maintain a long distance relationship. Effective communication plays a vital role in a long distance relationship. You must always keep in touch with your partner and make sure the conversation is meaningful.
In addition, you should always discuss your problems and thoughts with your partner. You should let him know what kind of problems you are facing recently. You can ask him to give you some opinion on your problems. By doing so, your partner will feel that he is very important in your life and you always need him to lend a helping hand towards you. Besides discussing your issue, you can also request him to share his problems with you. He will be very glad that you are caring of him.
Moreover, you can also have meals together twice a week. You can sit in front of the computer and turn on your web cam to have the meals together. You can share some of your views on the food. Although you are far apart from your partner, you can also watch him eating and sitting together to have meals.
Although you are far from your partner, you still can do some things together. You can listen to the same song and watching the same movie with your partner. You can imagine that your partner is beside with you.
Furthermore, you can give your partner a surprise. You can give a call in an unexpected time. He will feel very happy and special because you are willing to spend some time to talk to him. On the other hand, you can also visit him without telling him that you are coming. Lastly, you must not forget to say the three most important golden words to your partner.
Compiled by,
Lai Shu Tiing
Stress and Anxiety
Have you ever read before news regarding students had committed suicide because they had already stressed out? Nowadays, this kind of news had eventually become a natural phenomenon. This is because majority of the students are weak in coping with stress and anxiety. They thought that commit suicide is the best alternative to escape from stress and anxiety. However, it is really wrong to commit suicide just because of stress and anxiety.
Stress is unavoidable because it exists no matter at where or to whom. Some stress and anxiety are good for healthy and normal. It will encourage students to perform well and keep alert to the surrounding. Nevertheless, excessive of feeling stressful and anxious are bad for health. It can cause emotionally overwhelming and act as a barrier for students to think rationally.
Thus, it is very important to learn on how to cope with stress and anxiety. There are a number of ways which can help you to reduce stress. First, you can reduce your stress by listening to music. You can choose some of your favorite songs and download it into your iPod. You can just play the songs if you feel very stressful. As for me, this method seems to be very useful and powerful, because it really helps me a lot. Also, I feel more relax after listening to music.
Besides listening to music, you can also watch some movies. You can go to the cinema and watch some movies with your friends. You should choose some comedy movies because it makes you laugh. After you had watched the movies, you will seem to be more joyful and relax.
On the other hand, you can also seek help from doctors. You should explain to your doctor on your situation, so that they will know your condition. Some of the doctors will give you some medication which is effective for you to relieve stress and anxiety. Although medication can help you to reduce your stress, it is encourage learning to cope with stress rather than taking medicines.
Compiled by,
Lai Shu Tiing
Stress is unavoidable because it exists no matter at where or to whom. Some stress and anxiety are good for healthy and normal. It will encourage students to perform well and keep alert to the surrounding. Nevertheless, excessive of feeling stressful and anxious are bad for health. It can cause emotionally overwhelming and act as a barrier for students to think rationally.
Thus, it is very important to learn on how to cope with stress and anxiety. There are a number of ways which can help you to reduce stress. First, you can reduce your stress by listening to music. You can choose some of your favorite songs and download it into your iPod. You can just play the songs if you feel very stressful. As for me, this method seems to be very useful and powerful, because it really helps me a lot. Also, I feel more relax after listening to music.
Besides listening to music, you can also watch some movies. You can go to the cinema and watch some movies with your friends. You should choose some comedy movies because it makes you laugh. After you had watched the movies, you will seem to be more joyful and relax.
On the other hand, you can also seek help from doctors. You should explain to your doctor on your situation, so that they will know your condition. Some of the doctors will give you some medication which is effective for you to relieve stress and anxiety. Although medication can help you to reduce your stress, it is encourage learning to cope with stress rather than taking medicines.
Compiled by,
Lai Shu Tiing
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