BESTFRIENDS

Bestfriend are the most important person in our life besides our lover and family. They are people that we can self-disclose with. Anyhow, these people can sometimes pissed us off. and you feels that you are not important in their life anymore. You feels hopeless and sometimes annoyed by her complaint and everything. besides, you are tired of your bestfriend acting like you are not uo to scratch when he often walks all over you.

why not you try these :-

*Writing her a letter telling her how hurtful you are of the things that she done to you. Other than that, you can list down all the thoughtful things that you have done to her that prove what a good friend you are.

*Discussing it when calm. She just said something really rude and totally insensitive about something. Hold your breath and count to 10 or 15 or whatever number you want and try talk to her. But you must wait untill you calm otherwise you will lose your temper.

*telling her straight and explain how this is making you feel.

* Wishing her to change.If you have come clean and she still thinks she can behave however she wants and you'll just put up with it then sop returning her calls and slowly distance from the friendship

IZYAN ARINA MAZLAN
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The LOVe

Have you ever deeply fall in love with someone?and it feels like you in your own world. The love between your partnes never dies off. That's is Eros Love.What a unique name for love. Meaning of eros is the God of love or a sexual desire. It refers to the romantic that has tremendous passion, phyiscal longing, deep intensity and intimacy.
i wonder when can i get this kind of love in my life??huhu~

IZYAN ARINA MAZLAN
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Gesture

When we are communicating with people, especially during presentation we always love to gesture to express our feelings and thoughts. However, did you gesturing appropriately while you are speaking?

Now, I would like to share some rule of thumb for gesturing during presentation. First, you should not plan and rehearse your gestures while speaking with the audience. If you just plan your gesture and insert it while communicate, then you will be just acting like a robot. Hence, you just need to relax and let the gestures happen.

Next, you can videotape yourself and check whether you have always doing some annoying gestures while speaking. By doing so, you can spot some gestures which you find very annoying and you love to do it while speaking. Consequently, you can try to eliminate those gestures.

In addition, you should not try to imitate other speakers. You should use gestures which are appropriate for you because how you gesture is depend a lot on your personality and communicating style.

Furthermore, you should try to gesture visibly especially facing with a large amount of audience. You can try to adjust your gestures while speaking with many audiences, so that they can see it and catch your attention. In this way, it can enhance your presentation and audience will feel comfortable while watching you presentation.

Moreover, you should put your best face forward. You can show some facial expression according to your mood while you are speaking to the audience. Hence, you can try to videotape yourself and try to detect your facial expression while giving a talk.

Last but not least, you should move away the lectern. You can try to stand in a place which you feel free to gesture and comfortable and the audience can see you and hear you.

Compiled by,

Lai Shu Tiing

Sign of Confident

Have you ever experience of lacking confident while giving a presentation? Do you want to try to enhance your confident while speaking? As we know, confident is so important in our life, therefore we should make good use of it.

Now, I would like to share some ways to detect whether the person you are speaking lack of confident or not. First, you can see their posture. Confidence people will always standing tall with their shoulders back.

Next, you can try to watch their eye contact with you. Did they maintain a good eye contact with you or they just try to avoid looking at you while speaking? Confidence people will always try to have a good eye contact with you. Also, they will show you a smiling face which you will eventually find comfortable and likable to speak with them.

In addition, you can also try to watch their gestures while speaking. Are their gestures too tight or wide? Are they doing some gestures which you find very annoying? For those who are confident, they will gestures their hands and arms with kind of purposeful and deliberate.

Furthermore, you can try to listen to their tone of voice. Are they high or moderate? People who are full of confident will always speak with a moderate or slow of voice. You will feel very comfortable while listening to them.

Last but not least, you can try to listen to their speech. Are they speaking too fast or too slow? People who are lack of confident will speak very fast because they hope to end the conversation as soon as possible. As for people who are full of confident, they will speak slowly, so that you can listen very clearly to them.

Compiled by,

Lai Shu Tiing