Have you ever experience of lacking confident while giving a presentation? Do you want to try to enhance your confident while speaking? As we know, confident is so important in our life, therefore we should make good use of it.
Now, I would like to share some ways to detect whether the person you are speaking lack of confident or not. First, you can see their posture. Confidence people will always standing tall with their shoulders back.
Next, you can try to watch their eye contact with you. Did they maintain a good eye contact with you or they just try to avoid looking at you while speaking? Confidence people will always try to have a good eye contact with you. Also, they will show you a smiling face which you will eventually find comfortable and likable to speak with them.
In addition, you can also try to watch their gestures while speaking. Are their gestures too tight or wide? Are they doing some gestures which you find very annoying? For those who are confident, they will gestures their hands and arms with kind of purposeful and deliberate.
Furthermore, you can try to listen to their tone of voice. Are they high or moderate? People who are full of confident will always speak with a moderate or slow of voice. You will feel very comfortable while listening to them.
Last but not least, you can try to listen to their speech. Are they speaking too fast or too slow? People who are lack of confident will speak very fast because they hope to end the conversation as soon as possible. As for people who are full of confident, they will speak slowly, so that you can listen very clearly to them.
Compiled by,
Lai Shu Tiing
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