Saturday, October 31, 2009

BESTFRIENDS

Bestfriend are the most important person in our life besides our lover and family. They are people that we can self-disclose with. Anyhow, these people can sometimes pissed us off. and you feels that you are not important in their life anymore. You feels hopeless and sometimes annoyed by her complaint and everything. besides, you are tired of your bestfriend acting like you are not uo to scratch when he often walks all over you.

why not you try these :-

*Writing her a letter telling her how hurtful you are of the things that she done to you. Other than that, you can list down all the thoughtful things that you have done to her that prove what a good friend you are.

*Discussing it when calm. She just said something really rude and totally insensitive about something. Hold your breath and count to 10 or 15 or whatever number you want and try talk to her. But you must wait untill you calm otherwise you will lose your temper.

*telling her straight and explain how this is making you feel.

* Wishing her to change.If you have come clean and she still thinks she can behave however she wants and you'll just put up with it then sop returning her calls and slowly distance from the friendship

IZYAN ARINA MAZLAN
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