As we all know, communication is important to keep the relationship keep going and strong. But, certain couples are still clueless about how to maintain a good relationships with their own partner. To keep your realtionship healthy, there's nothing you can do except for understand each other and being empathy, feel being in someone else's shoes.
First of all, you have to know what exactly the communication styles you're using. Is the partner can accept the way you communicate with he/she? Its important to make sure they understand what you meant to say.
Secondly, whenever you get into fight or something really can't work, just look at yourself first. People always tend to blame their partner every time things go wrong. You will start pointing to them for all the wrongdoing. For your information, it's hard to realize your own mistakes and takes the responsibility to view and judge your own actions. It is because you hard to accept critics from others. So from now on, try to be more considerate and avoid misunderstanding with your partner.
Ease your mind. Lots of couples complain that they tried so much but it seems that everything just can't work. The best thing is try to slow things down and cool down. Don't jump into conclusion. You cannot blame the communication styles you're using cause its actually the key to neutralize your relationship. Instead, try to figure out something else. Does you and your partners accept the way you guys are communicating? Does you guys interpret the information correctly while discussing the matter?Share and try to convince your partner rather than just ask them to follow what you want.
Besides that, a good communication rely on the way you listen to improve your relationship. Try to rewind back, are you really listen to your partner is saying or just hear what he/she is saying? For certain people, how you react, give respond and attention when the person is speaking is important. It reflect what you are in person. It shows whether you are serious in the relationship or not. It means whether you connect emotionally to your partner. Bear in mind that communication in a relationship have to be open, honest, respectful to each other and tolerate to avoid arguments.
Last but not least, everything about your own relationship its actually up to you on how you put your efforts to manage it as perfect as possible. Good communication and understanding will enhance a better, healthier and loving relationship.
Its not complicated after all.
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